Friday, March 4, 2011

How To Make A Relationship Work

By James Speer


Romantic relationships can take quite a beating sometimes to bring a lot of stress to the couple. That is why being able to get over them as soon as they begin to show some strain is the most important thing. Take a look at what to do whenever you are confronted with a hard time in the romance.

The absence of communication between the couple tends to do more damage to the relationship at this stage. It is because they do not get to talk about their real feelings about the issues at hand in order to solve them. Others would take the chance to talk but they end up not being forthright.

There would therefore be pent up feelings of hurt and unresolved issues that cause irritation. All these may cause a lot of damage to the couple's trust in each other and begin a deterioration of the relationship, leading to actual separation.

For an opportunity to save the situation; there must be a proper effort to put back on track some reasonable dialogue. In this juncture, neither of the couple is expected to use this chance to fire unkind or provocative words across the divide.

To help matters somehow, you should both try to recall the olden days when your love was still strong.

Forget painting the ugly pictures of these past few days or weeks and just look forward to having a better relationship as you used to have. Go to the places you used to frequent with your friend when the love was still strong but also you could watch the same movies you used to enjoy. This will rekindle things somehow.

There is always a tendency at this time for one or both of the couple to try and win the argument, but this would not be the best idea. Put ego aside and just be compromising and forgiving which would help matters a great deal and bring back the relationship on track.

All in all, it will depend on whether the two of you want the same thing, since a relationship takes the effort of both the people involved for it to work.




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