Monday, March 7, 2011

Advice On How To Win Trust

By Duncan Devlin


During your very first meeting with a personality, one of the main things to achieve is to gain the trust of the person. If you failed to achieve this target called the trust, then anything spoken by you about any topic will be considered suspicious. This thing will lead to the halt in the relationship and you will see that the relationship will not grow as it should. The below five tips will help you in getting someone's trust easily.

1. For a moment think that if you have to meet an unknown person for the first time. What will be your behavior? Will you be very frank during the first encounter or somewhat possessive and self controlled? Of you will be somewhat self conscious and will not try to be frank with him. If you have top talk to him for a long time, you will be very uncomfortable and will not talk with ease and you will try to hide your personal information as much as you can.

2. Don't try to present yourself in front of the person, whom you are meeting for the first time, in a false sense. This can very dangerous for your future interaction with him. He may become doubtful about you and even lost his trust in you if he ever knew about your lies.

3. Don't just try to highlight only your personality, give time to the other person and ask him some basic questions.

4. Show some respect and give some value to their opinion. This thing is very important and it does not mean that you are agreeing to what they believe in.

5. In front of the person that is more or less unknown, try to present yourself in a proper conversational style and your body language should be positive. You can also copy the style of your ideal personality whom you like the most.

For a long term working relation and closer association, it is a must to have a close look at the style, speaking habit, and body language of the person.

The above mentioned tips will assist you in building a true level of trust and understanding with any unknown person.




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