I'm writing this article to try and clear the air on the term "the gold digger", a label applied to women who specifically and exclusively date wealthy men.
Some people love the luxuries that being rich brings. Further, they strive with the pressures that also come with these luxuries. Occasionally these people are women who, rather than earn the riches themselves, hope to marry into riches. As such, they pursue and date wealthy men exclusively.
Lets have a look at reality. We live in a diverse world, a world where there are people who strive and are successful in a million variations of existence. The very definition of "success" changes as it is thought about by every unique person. One of these instances of success is the reality of abundance, of the wealthy. Such a reality has its own pressures, its own ups and downs. Just have a look at any gossip column if you think people who live in opulence live a totally charmed life. The reality is starkly different.
Being rich is not for everyone. Personally, I'd prefer a fulfilling life with my family than give the priority and commitment to career that many of the wealthy have. But that is just me. In our amazing world of difference and variety, there are people who can only exist with the benefits and pressures of such an existence. Living in such a reality is what brings out the best in them and is the reality where they can be "whole".
So why is it then, when someone understands themself, knows that this type of lifestyle is the one they need to be the best person they can be and goes out to find a partner who has a similar view on life, they are labelled a "gold digger". Its just silly. Once again, it seems people label other people simply because of their own intolerance.
If you are being honest with yourself, if you know what you need to be the best person you can be, just go for it. If in your circumstance, this means finding a wealthy or successful partner, great. Good luck. There are plenty of dating sites out there which cater specifically to your circumstance
And forget about the detractors. Remember, their opinions usually tell you more about them than the people they are opining about.
Some people love the luxuries that being rich brings. Further, they strive with the pressures that also come with these luxuries. Occasionally these people are women who, rather than earn the riches themselves, hope to marry into riches. As such, they pursue and date wealthy men exclusively.
Lets have a look at reality. We live in a diverse world, a world where there are people who strive and are successful in a million variations of existence. The very definition of "success" changes as it is thought about by every unique person. One of these instances of success is the reality of abundance, of the wealthy. Such a reality has its own pressures, its own ups and downs. Just have a look at any gossip column if you think people who live in opulence live a totally charmed life. The reality is starkly different.
Being rich is not for everyone. Personally, I'd prefer a fulfilling life with my family than give the priority and commitment to career that many of the wealthy have. But that is just me. In our amazing world of difference and variety, there are people who can only exist with the benefits and pressures of such an existence. Living in such a reality is what brings out the best in them and is the reality where they can be "whole".
So why is it then, when someone understands themself, knows that this type of lifestyle is the one they need to be the best person they can be and goes out to find a partner who has a similar view on life, they are labelled a "gold digger". Its just silly. Once again, it seems people label other people simply because of their own intolerance.
If you are being honest with yourself, if you know what you need to be the best person you can be, just go for it. If in your circumstance, this means finding a wealthy or successful partner, great. Good luck. There are plenty of dating sites out there which cater specifically to your circumstance
And forget about the detractors. Remember, their opinions usually tell you more about them than the people they are opining about.
About the Author:
Jayde Johannsen offers free dating advice for women and specifically, reviews about Australian Dating Sites. Unique version for reprint here: The Gold Digger - Is She Really A Bad Person?.
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