Saturday, March 10, 2012

To Dos On How To Get Women To Hear You Out

By Carter Kane


Women love to talk and most of the time, they love talking about themselves. Regardless of the topic, they still find ways to lead the discussion back to themselves or things that they like talking about. Well, do not take this against them because if you want them to stop and take notice of you, you should consider "women talk" to get them to listen to you.


The following are not pickup lines that you tell someone you have just met. These tips are for those whom you have known for a long while already. Perhaps a girlfriend whom you are having problems with at the moment or someone you have been seeing the past couple of months and you are hoping that she is amenable to taking the relationship to the next level. Whatever is the scenario, your purpose is be able to express your feelings in a manner that women understand.


Lavish her with sincere praises. The key here is sincerity. Women smell phonies a mile away from them and complimenting her when she knows you are just trying to flatter her will not do you any good. Instead, find things that make her stand out. Saying she "looks incredible" is so effortless, and yet it is one thing that a woman likes to hear from a guy especially after she made huge efforts to look good for him.


Show you are committed to her. How do you show your commitment to a woman? By continuously assuring her of your love and removing her doubts in the relationship. Include her in your dreams and plans for the future. You do not have to talk about marriage as it might scare her off, but at least help her visualize a future of you together. With that, she will grasp a sense of commitment from you. And most importantly, she will feel secure in your love and your relationship.


Be protective of her. Show her how much you care about her and do that in front of other people. If you see someone flirting with her, step up and show her that you are the man to beat. Do not be arrogant when doing so. Instead, get her attention and ask, "who was that?" Do not be suspicious, but ask her half-seriously and she will even think it is sweet and adorable of you to even feel a bit jealous of the competition.


Ask about her everyday routines. If you want to score major points, take interest in her daily activities. Ask how her day went, who she was with, what she had for lunch, and other small stuff that happened to her. One thing to take note of is this could open up a dam of emotions that could start a discussion that is of least importance to you. On the other hand, showing your interest on her and remembering past conversations makes her think that you are such a thoughtful and sensitive kind of man.


Meaning what you say is the key as to whether she will take your words or not. Your tone and delivery would imply how sincere you are in your compliments and actions. Thus, determine your style and polish it. Remember, empty words will only waste your efforts of winning her.




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