Saturday, October 22, 2011

Learning To Love Positive Relationships

By Lois Frazier


If you just broke up from a disastrous relationship, move on immediately. Life is rich and can offer you better experiences than you had with the other person you just broke up with so explore the possibilities.

There are many things I would like to recommend you to do if only to attract the right type of people and these suggestions however, require you to focus on yourself first. Loving yourself is the greatest love of all, as the saying goes. So we should love ourselves first before we can also love others.

The first thing you should do is get someone to help you see what's going on inside you. This person must be a professional who is highly qualified in dealing with this matter. With the professional's assistance, you will be able to determine areas that can be improved so you can become a better person.

A lot of times, things that happened in our childhood influence our current decisions even though they occurred in the past. It is important to identify what these are in order for us to move on.

To help you define what you seek for in a partner, you can also go to a relationship coach. Having a clear vision of what you seek in a partner, identifying your core values and interests, and defining what you want and need from a relationship are just some of the activities you can look forward to when you work with a relationship coach.

You can get thoughtful feedback, questions for personal introspection , and a safe and confidential environment from your coach which can help you achieve the desire of your life. You will greatly feel confident and be able to fulfill your dreams by creating plans and by investing it.

You may not be as different in your views and aspirations as before, but you will be more confident as a result of the process. With confidence, comes attraction from the opposite sex. If you are a lady, decent men will approach you with esteem.

Always bear in mind that it this is a process and healing yourself will take time. Have faith in yourself, focus on your goals, and make the effort to build yourself up again. Remember, you are important. You deserve love. You deserve to be be respected and treated kindly.

And always remind yourself that you made the decision to gain back control of your life. You ended an unhealthy relationship to prepare yourself for a much more better one.




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