Friday, March 25, 2011

Dating Tips For The Serious Man

By Norman Seymour


It is common to meet with men who have no interest in longtime commitments. All they want is a one night fling or a couple of meetings with the woman which will stop the moment he meets a greener pasture so to speak.

In this venture you may still meet some serious men who are looking for a woman to date with the long term goal of getting married to her. It is only natural that you wish to get married at some point in time. This being the case, the rules employed should be different from the one who just want s a woman for a day or two.

If you have found the right woman for you, it is good to move the conversation from just the first flirting to a more serious platform of wanting to know who she really is. Know her person and if possible her intelligence by initiating such topics. Avoid wanting to what she has or material matters at first. That can be handled at a different time.

It is not wise to assume on matters, so get to knowing if the woman you wish to marry is of the same opinion. Otherwise you may be wasting your precious time with her if her thoughts are not in that direction.

This is the trick, if the woman you are dating is interested on a casual date and meeting up with you; she will not be willing to open up to you in that direction from the very beginning. Another sign that she is for the idea of a long term commitment, take her to a more sober areas like restaurants or a formal area. If you get closer to her you can learn more about each other.

Advance your conversations to more meaningful marriage direction only after you have established that you and the woman in question are on the same page in regards to marriage. Start making interesting and more captivating discussions with her on the subject with her.

The first thing to be wary of is the woman's consent. But first you should ensure that your heart it in agreement that she is the woman of your choice. Date her and start on a casual tone then move it to a serious note as you progress on.

Women hate men who don't have confidence in making some long term commitments especially in this matter of marriage. If you can not have confidence and show an ability to make the commitment, how can this girl make a commitment to you. If you have the guts then they will find you more attractive and it could help you move your relationship further.




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