Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Why You Should Not Rush Into A Relationship With An Ex

By Roxanne Crouch


A relationship is one of the hardest thing you can engage in and handle easily. Most people even those who prove to be experts in this field have not been able to manage it at least in the first time especially when they were able to enter in on blindly. This has been so even for me in the first few years when i was new in most relationships.

When you think of being in a relationship, you have to consider the pros and the cons rather than entering in it blindly since it might end up costing you. You should also consider if it is a wise idea if you enter in a relationship again with your ex especially if you know it was not wise for you to be with him/her.

Relationships should not be based on the reason that you met him/her and because he/she appeared like the person of your dream you thought it's chance to get into a relationship with him. What you need to do is to look into that person the qualities that are of importance in any relationship.

Their is nothing in life does not change even beauty, if you are together in a relationship with a person because he looks the way you have always desired what do you think will happen when the handsomeness or beauty fades after sometime.

Am sure nobody enjoys being alone, in fact most of the time we want to be with our life partner and go out and enjoy life to the fullest, but that is no good reason to be in a relationship with any person who comes in your way and convinces you to be in a relationship with him/her.

Loneliness can really cloud your judgment when you are selecting the person to stay with; in fact it will make you to jump into a relationship with the next person that comes in your way costing you a lot in the near future.

Most important when you are dealing with your partner, you need to be able to ask yourself, will it be wise if you have a person around you whom you are not always free to discuss some issues and apart from that make sure that you are certain that it will be wise if you stay with a person whom you only feel comfortable with when you are romantically involved, in fact you need to be sure of these if you think your ex is the right person to be with.

Am sure you are now in a better position to decide if you should have your ex back. If you find it to be the right thing to do, go ahead and take a step by applying the already designed methods in which you can be able to do it.




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