Friday, June 24, 2011

Survive A Breakup And Get Your Ex Back

By Sonja Schuyler


Most people have experienced some kind of a break up in their life. Most people wonder what went wrong. While some do their best to move on, some are looking for ways to get their ex back. You know it takes some work to get an ex back.

Ninety percent of the time there is really no reason why you can't get an ex back after a break up. You will have a much better chance to win your ex back by learning the necessary steps. Breaking up does not mean that you cannot get back together with your ex.

Learning what happened that caused the break up in the first place is the first step in getting your ex back. Although you cannot change what happened in the past, you can learn from the mistakes and you can grow from the experiences.

Your break up might have happened from several things or just one event. Try to figure out what the reason was that led to the breakup. You need to get it figured out so you can deal with it should it come up again. You need to figure out what went wrong in the first place if you want to make the reconcillation last the long term,

Be sure you are not coming off as a needy person. Don't make it obvious that you cannot live without your ex. Stay strong. Be self confident. You will have a better chance of getting back together if your ex knows that you are doing just fine by yourself.

You want your ex to see you are doing well. Being nasty or trying to get back at your ex doesn't work. Trying to make your ex jealous is not a good idea. You don't want your ex to move on because he thinks you have. The goal is to get back together.

Above all else, analyze what went wrong and find out what the problem was. Find out what caused the arguments. Find out which needs weren't being met and work on rectifying those issues.

For more great techniques, principles and advice, I would recommend the The Magic Of Making Up. It has helped hundreds of men and women just like you win back the mind, heart and soul of the ones they love.




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