Men frequently whine about what odd and complicated creatures women are. The whole women are from Venus and men are from Mars spiel justifies their woefully inadequate love lives. Women are hard to put a finger on, according to many single men.
It isn't all hopeless though. Dating doesn't have to be so rigorous and strained as some people make it out to be. Women aren't so mysterious. Just stick to these guidelines and the first date could end up being the start of something very special.
Keep in mind that despite the stress associated with the first date, it should be a fun, romantic and light. It's nothing too formal, you're not dating the queen. But that doesn't mean that you can get away with having a soda at Taco Bell's. There are two steadfast expectations: you pick the girl up and you go somewhere, usually requiring a reservation of some sort.
The thoughtful gentleman always has something planned in advance. A first date isn't something you can plan on the fly. You usually need to make reservations or purchase tickets beforehand. It really needn't be too fancy, but you do need a plan.
Don't do your lady a disfavor by underestimating her worth. Even if your date is laid back and prefers hiking in the wild to going shopping, do not make plans that are too casual. Typically women expect men to invest in things that they value, either with time, cash, enthusiasm, or creativity. If you don't follow this expectation, do expect to be brushed aside. Your actions show a woman who you are, remember that.
Phone calls are important. Don't leave your date hanging. This means call with time to confirm your date. Leaving it to the last minute causes unnecessary anxiety and will perhaps lead to a spoiled date. Women take a lot of time to prep for a date, so it's a given courtesy that you don't just swing by at the last minute.
Be on time. Don't keep your date waiting. Being late is simply bad manners. You shouldn't be late to an important meeting or should you be late for a first date. It's bad form and it gets your date off on a rocky start. If something comes up and you will be late, remember to pick up the phone and give your lady a heads up.
Flattery in moderation is a good thing. If you really like your lady, don't be afraid to tell her so. But again, practice the time tested measure of moderation. You don't want to come on too strong as that's off putting. Simply saying, 'you look great,' will put you in her good graces.
When it comes to paying the check don't try to be egalitarian. A woman likes being treated. Besides that, she has already spent a mini-fortune in her pre-date preparations (the hair, the shoes, the waxing, etc).
Now if your date doesn't go as expected, be gracious and courteous. Don't offer false hopes of phone calls that will never be made. Tell your date thanks for coming and wish her a goodnight. It's not that hard.
If the date goes well, let her know you had a good time. Be courteous and gentlemanly.
It isn't all hopeless though. Dating doesn't have to be so rigorous and strained as some people make it out to be. Women aren't so mysterious. Just stick to these guidelines and the first date could end up being the start of something very special.
Keep in mind that despite the stress associated with the first date, it should be a fun, romantic and light. It's nothing too formal, you're not dating the queen. But that doesn't mean that you can get away with having a soda at Taco Bell's. There are two steadfast expectations: you pick the girl up and you go somewhere, usually requiring a reservation of some sort.
The thoughtful gentleman always has something planned in advance. A first date isn't something you can plan on the fly. You usually need to make reservations or purchase tickets beforehand. It really needn't be too fancy, but you do need a plan.
Don't do your lady a disfavor by underestimating her worth. Even if your date is laid back and prefers hiking in the wild to going shopping, do not make plans that are too casual. Typically women expect men to invest in things that they value, either with time, cash, enthusiasm, or creativity. If you don't follow this expectation, do expect to be brushed aside. Your actions show a woman who you are, remember that.
Phone calls are important. Don't leave your date hanging. This means call with time to confirm your date. Leaving it to the last minute causes unnecessary anxiety and will perhaps lead to a spoiled date. Women take a lot of time to prep for a date, so it's a given courtesy that you don't just swing by at the last minute.
Be on time. Don't keep your date waiting. Being late is simply bad manners. You shouldn't be late to an important meeting or should you be late for a first date. It's bad form and it gets your date off on a rocky start. If something comes up and you will be late, remember to pick up the phone and give your lady a heads up.
Flattery in moderation is a good thing. If you really like your lady, don't be afraid to tell her so. But again, practice the time tested measure of moderation. You don't want to come on too strong as that's off putting. Simply saying, 'you look great,' will put you in her good graces.
When it comes to paying the check don't try to be egalitarian. A woman likes being treated. Besides that, she has already spent a mini-fortune in her pre-date preparations (the hair, the shoes, the waxing, etc).
Now if your date doesn't go as expected, be gracious and courteous. Don't offer false hopes of phone calls that will never be made. Tell your date thanks for coming and wish her a goodnight. It's not that hard.
If the date goes well, let her know you had a good time. Be courteous and gentlemanly.
About the Author:
Jayde Johanssen understands the turmoil that can occur with men dating. This is why she offers online dating advice for men, to help encourage more successful dating experiences. This article, Tips for a Successful First Date has free reprint rights.
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