Monday, February 21, 2011

How To Make Friends Without The Anxiety

By William Reeds


There are some people who are fully convinced that connecting with people is not within their capability. Everyone will deep inside fear the possibility of being rejected by other people. That keeps them from stepping up to meet new faces.

It is lucky though that there is stuff you can do to cut down that anxiety that comes with meeting friends.

Take time to know yourself better and the things which you dedicate most of your free time to doing. If you drink coffee while reading a book in free time, you can join a book readers club and share books with people who like similar interest.

Go internet savvy and start using websites to boost your chances of making friends. These are the in thing lately. Just be honest when you are posting details and photos on your profiles.

If you are more of the sporty kind, then look for clubs and area teams where you can learn or continue playing the game. You can therefore meet other friends who have a passion for that game or sport.

Stay open-minded. Remember that you are not looking for some special beings but just some friends you can connect with. When you deliberately set out to look for a special kind of person, you may end up being disappointed greatly. Focus on just meeting friends.

To let a friend know that you are at least interested, you should keep smiling and stay inquisitive about your pals' interests. See where you have common ground. Keep things light and informal and a sense of humor will do.

Maintain direct eye contact when you talk to people otherwise they will think that you do not mean a thing you say. You do not want to seem like the guy who talks a lot of hot air just so that he can be part of a group; only to be exposed.




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