Thursday, November 24, 2011

Stopping and dealing with ejaculating too quick

By Mike Grover


It is a well known fact that as men we do not openly discuss this minor problem of quick ejaculation and yes i consider it a minor problem that can be dealt with quickly and effectively with the correct guidance.

I believe that it is a macho thing with us we all like to think of ourselves as the "super stud" but it isn't always like that.

Everyone has experienced the big mouth telling us all about their love life and for those suffering from quick ejaculation it can almost bring on a sense of shame.

But it gets worse, it gives us a sense of being worthless affecting our self-confidence and self esteem and the more that we are unable to share it the worse it will get.

Believe me though through the research i carried out into quick ejaculation proves that you are NOT alone.

There can be numerous reasons for quick ejaculation, sometimes going back to puberty when we would ejaculate quickly just for the orgasm through masturbation.

Never seeming to grow out of it and not realising that a partner may want to be satisfied as well but the female will always take longer to orgasm than the male.

Certain stress factors may well cause this problem like for example money worries trouble and pressures at work and even certain health worries however taking a step back and seeing what is going on in our life will be a start.

Some ways in which we can halt the orgasm is to try not to get excited, take longer over foreplay and focus your efforts on satisfying ones partner instead.

Love making doesn't always have to be about the penis we have other methods to give satisfaction e.g. fingers and tongues After all lesbians do not have a penis!

While thrusting and you feel the need to orgasm either stop or remove yourself from your partner. If she wants to touch you and again the feeling of orgasm approaches then just get her to stop.




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